Sabrael’s Resolutions
Resolution the first: Limit the number of planned projects. More often than not I get ideas for projects left and right, and almost immediately they all go into planning phase and end up bottle necking projects I already had set-up, meaning I end up getting nothing done. I need to figure out a system for myself on how to efficiently streamline the idea process on my projects. And so the rules of this resolution are as follows: If I get an idea for a projects I am going to write it down with a few notes on what I had in mind when it came to me. It’ll stay there until another project is out of planning and a project spot becomes available. I will keep my number of planned projects to 4, and I must never have more than this, but I can have fewer than this if I find that one project is a big enough work load to keep me busy.Sorcha’s Resolutions
Resolution the second: Learn to archive old notes and ideas instead of deleting them. I find that I have old ideas and notes floating around in various places and more often than not I end up erasing them, and making a document that eventually also gets erased, only to find that sometime later I want those notes back and neither my document nor my original source are available. I need to realize that redundancy isn’t always a bad thing. And so the rules of this resolution are as follows: Whenever I stumble across notes or documentation of something that I am not working on, and don’t see myself working on soon, I will make redundant backups just in case. One will be on GoogleDocs, another on my personal website as a simple text file, and the last two will be files on both my computer and my private server’s DataSpace. If I have the opportunity, I will also print a hard copy and stash that away in an accordion file, but that one might not be very often.
Resolution the third: Maintain a self schedule and stick to it. I am very prone to distractions. And sadly it isn’t as simple as getting caught up in browsing the web or clicking that lovable StumbleUpon button. No, my distractions involve finding a new site and exploring it, or getting a new game with potential for fictional work, or the worse one yet, going headfirst into a project and ignoring everything else that needs to be done. I want to divide my time up into my various projects and obsessions, even if it means I only get a small amount time with each one, I’d like to see progress all around. And so the rules of this resolution are as follows: In any given week, I will spend at the very least 3 hours on any one project or hobby. I can spend more time on them, but only after each item has been given its allotment.
The First Resolution: The 12 Goals. I know I’ve talked occasionally on this blog about how over the past few years I’ve gone through some real highs and lows with my depression. It shut me down, essentially. I passed up some great opportunities and let a lot of good people fall through my fingers. I know that those are things I won’t ever be able to get back but I can make a conscious decision not to let it happen again. So every month I’m going to make myself a goal. It’s going to be something I want to do, learn, see, visit, buy, explore, etc and I’m going to make it happen. It can be done by myself or with others but I’m not going to let anything stop me from completing my goals and trying something new. The rules dictate that the goal must be chosen by the first of the month to keep me from BSing something at the last minute. The goals don’t necessarily have to be something I haven’t done before but they at least have to be done in a new way. They also have to be something I enjoy doing but something that would be at least slightly challenging to complete.
The Second Resolution: Write Daily. Over the summer I was introduced to a website I absolutely love called 750words. It’s a journaling website where the goal is to write 750 words (about 2-3 pages) a day. At the end of every entry it makes charts and graphs of your mood, concerns, and content which you can share with others but all of your entries themselves are entirely private. I started off really strong on 750words, making it to an 80 day streak before technical difficulties broke my record. I got very discouraged by this and kept trying to pick it up again but something always distracted me from it. I got lazy, copying and pasting text to make the goal and really that’s entirely against the point. Sab and I are planning to set up a prompt system to help me keep on track. The rules dictate that all content submitted to 750words but be written that day. It doesn’t have to be creative writing specifically but that is what is preferred and, along with personal journaling, should make up the biggest percentage of articles. Homework cannot be copied and pasted for filler content. At least one prompt should be used per week and at least two entries should be journal.
The Third Resolution: Choose Active Entertainment Over Passive. Netflix and YouTube, like most things, are some of my greatest joys and biggest distractions. I have something playing on my computer almost constantly, even when I’m not really paying attention. Just to give you an idea, I finished watching five seasons of Buffy in about two months. Two months that were interspersed with school and work no less. I’m not saying that I’m going to give up my show addictions but I need to keep a better eye on it. I also need to keep my mindless internet stumbling to a minimum. If I’m not working or playing with something specific I should find something else to do. I need to make it a point to read more books, work on more of my crafts, go to new museum exhibitions, play games with my friends. It’s time to take back control over my brain again. The rules dictate that I should limit my online video watching to around 10 hours per week. Also if I realize that I’m just aimlessly wandering the internet I should cut myself off after an hour. School and writing work should take priority but after that’s finished I need to find something else to keep my mind busy.
And there you have it, our resolutions. Simple but progressive. It goes to show that with a little help from a loving partner, you can help enforce your resolutions on yourself. Of course, it helps if these resolutions are reasonable, as opposed to dramatic and over the top. Some people might say that relying on someone to help you with a resolution you made to yourself, a challenge you chose to take on, is a sign of weakness, or a lack of resolve. Hardly, if you can’t rely on the person you love in times of need, then who can you rely on? So until next time, promise to format your flash drives, and have a Happy and Safe New Years.
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